My observations tell me a lot of people have either an unrealistic or incomplete idea of who they are and how they look. Looks is much easily debatable. This is where I get to say the one thing that's been on my mind for a long time. I thought of publishing it on facebook but confirm a lot of my friends will terasa. As much as I'd like them to 'wake up' I don't wanna hurt their feelings. It might annoy me, but its really their bodies and its entirely up to them what they want to do with themselves.

Its not the clothing that makes you look fat. Its the fact that you're FAT that makes you look FAT.

Don't you hate it when someone asks that? They put something on and get all hrmph and sighhh and hmmm.... If they weren't fat, it wouldn't happen that way. Instead they don't want to accept it, or they think its good enough to try and hide it with their clothes. And then everyone must be polite enough to not point it out or to play along.

SERIOUSLY?!

If my haircut is ugly you HAVE TO TELL ME otherwise I might not know, or I might go away thinking hey it wasn't a stupid idea after all, people are okay with it! Yes I would get a little hurt if someone pointed it out, that's a natural reaction, but overall I'm happy that my flaw was pointed out... SO I CAN CORRECT IT.

People today have very loose standards for what is 'fat'. I think its because they want to convince themselves they're 'not fat'. It just takes one look at a person who's lean or fit and their entire point of being 'not fat' is crushed. Buttttt they will argue.

Similarly, people have funny ideas of what's 'big' or 'muscular' or 'buff'. I have a problem with people telling me that I'm big, for the simple reason that I'm not. To an extent comparing will never get you anywhere because There is always someone bigger/better/smarter whatever. But look at a certain group, maybe your peers or something, and you'll see it makes sense to compare like that first before telling someone they're big. And please, PLEASE, even if you think I'm big, do NOT tell me to stop exercising and leave my body as it is. Just... don't.

Honestly I don't know how people can look at their unhealthy bodies and feel happy. Or are they not happy? Or do they not look to begin with? Maybe no mirrors at home? I swear, I've seen some people appear in public with such obvious and simply corrected mistakes (be it in terms of dressing or their face or whatever) that I just can't help but wonder,

DIDN'T YOU LOOK AT THE FRICKING MIRROR BEFORE LEAVING THE HOUSE?!

HOW CAN PEOPLE WALK AROUND WITH NOSE HAIRS JUST DYING TO SHOW THEMSELVES TO THE WORLD. That is just ONE example of all the CRAP I've seen. Don't ask me to get specific and DON'T ask me about you because if you do then I'll let loose and you'll probably walk away hurt. Unless you want it and we can be cool afterwards. Then I'll REALLY have a lotta respect for you.

At one point it seems that I'm overly obsessed with my image. But am I? I mean really, your image is the one thing you give to people even before you can introduce yourself. Its the message of who you are that you send out to all the strangers you walk past everyday. And like it or not, it reflects the way you think about yourself and what you prioritise. The same way how you eat reflects how you make love, and how you behave reflects the purity of your heart. I could go on, maybe.

What's the deal with people? What are they rushing about with everyday that they don't have time to take care of the most important thing in their life... themselves. Your body is your vessel in this universe and if you don't upkeep it then expect a shitty ride sooner or later.

And also, there's the problem nowadays of being dressed yet naked. Do you get that? Of course you do. I saw an example at the gym just now. I was crouched over my bag getting stuff out when the door to my left opened. Naturally I looked up... I wish I didn't. This malay looking lady stepped out of the toilet, top to bottom in some skin tight dunno what nonsense and some funky looking tudung thing. Seriously. SERIOUSLY.

SE_FRICKING_RIOUSLY?!

Why BOTHER wearing a tudung if I can see the damn shape of your damn BODY! Do people not understand that??? You are supposed to cover up not so people can't see your SKIN, but so they can't see the Shape and Curves of your BODY. It was a ridiculous looking tudung thing she was wearing by the way.

All that said, I'm definitely not perfect nor a good person to begin with but I have every confidence that the issues I just pointed out require plain common sense for anyone to understand and agree to. Its not something controversial or complicated like Politics or Euthanasia. I just wish, at the very least, that the people closest to me and those whom are dear to me do not fall prey to these stupid ideas and that they spare me the burden of having to put up with such ridiculous behaviour on a long term and regular basis. It would make my life hell. And if I can't take it I'll run away to an island and live like a hermit till I can't take it then go somewhere else. Maybe open a 365 gym thing like in the movie Never Back Down HAHA.

Its Fattish, not Fetish